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Monday, March 16, 2009

Human Habitrail Redux









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Six months ago, my family spent an evening at an indoor play area with an overhead play structure that was a labyrinth of plastic tunnels ending in a slide. At the time, my son Austen was eager to climb up and try the slide, yet terrified of the new and unknown. Under the tutelage of a friendly, patient and enthusiastic stranger of about his own age, he managed -- hesitantly and tearfully -- to try it.

This weekend were were back at the same spot for another child's birthday party. "Mama, I want to go down the slide!" Austen told me.

"Ok, buddy," I said, secretly anxious about what would happen once he was faced with the climb up into the tunnel maze. But it turned out that I was the only one who was anxious. Austen zipped into the structure before I could remind him to take off his shoes, and then zipped back down after his sister, hot on his heels, chastised him for forgetting. He tore his shoes off and climbed back up without hesitation. Moments later, I heard him whizzing down the slide with a gleeful, "Wheeee!" and saw his curly head pop out at the bottom.

I thought perhaps he had forgotten all about how scary the structure had once been until he ran up to me, beaming, and said, "I did it! I did it all by myself! And I wasn't scared at all this time!"

"Good job, buddy!" I said.

14 comments:

  1. I am grinning from ear to ear. Way to go, Austen!
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  2. Isn't that a wonderful feeling?

    I just wanted you to know that I have had a major epiphany this weekend, partly from life experiences and partly from the things I read on your blog on Saturday. Thank you. I want you to know that I understand my son better now, and our relationship is deeper. I hope this doesn't sound at all trite, but I want you to know that you have changed my life, and I can't thank you enough.
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  3. This Mama's heart is going pitter-pat for your sweet boy! Way to go, buddy!
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  4. I have stupid happy grin :D Go Austen!

    btw, there's an award waiting for you over at my place :)
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  5. Precious! Thanks for noting and celebrating (by sharing it) that moment of joy. It's encouraging to any mom!
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  6. Is it me, or is Austen having more and more of these victories lately?

    This is seriously cool. I can only imagine how proud you are of the little guy.
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  7. WooHoo- watching them grow and be succesful and face things that scared them alone, there is nothing that matches that.
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  8. I .. uh ... hi. Um ... I got one of those chain mail blog awards and I am passing it on to you. I really do love your blog.
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  9. I really really want to go on a weekend retreat up in the mountains, but I have to register soon...and I just can't seem to pull the trigger on the whole deal. It means driving up there alone, and then I won't know a soul, and they'll probably be mean to me, and they'll serve bloodly hoof and horn 3 times a day.....and the purpose of the whole thing is silent reflection and god forbid I know I'll blurt out something.

    But then Austen had to go and show me up. I guess I just might have to go, and then send you an email that says "hey Mama! I did it! All by myself"
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  10. What a great moment for both of you! Reading this made my day!
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  11. I love to hear of Austen's successes!
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  12. Austen is my hero! I always love reading about him.
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