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Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Updated Blogroll









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My blogroll was long overdue for a makeover. As you all know, the rules are: comment regularly and ye shall be put on the blogroll. But oh, what a headache to keep track of all that myself! Enter a neat little piece of code that keeps track of that for me. You comment, and it automatically adds a nice little linky to you over on my sidebar. Yay!

The only problem is that I want to break my own rules. Ok, actually, I did break my own rules a little, because the Junky's Wife has been my blogging BFF since I started blogging almost two years ago, so she will always get a link even if she's too pretty to comment anymore. And also Bev, because I said way back that I'd link to her even if she didn't comment. See! I've broken the rule twice already. And I really want to break it some more times. Because some of the very wonderful relationships I've built -- and some of the blogs I stalk most relentlessly -- are not on there. And I know some people lost track of me when I moved to the new URL.

On the other hand, I don't at all want to break my own rules. I hate playing favorites. And I like having a way to reward the wonderful community of folks who write on my virtual bathroom wall, as well as a snappy response to those creepy spammers who beg me to link to them, like I'm some kind of cheap blogging one night stand. (Don't try to win my heart by commenting either, people with the virtual marketing-hair. You go straight to my spam folder.)

In the end, I've decided to let the rules stand for the time being -- no matter how hot or hilarious or real life friend (sh! don't tell) a blogger you are. Thank you all so much for being here. Enjoy the new (automated!) blogroll. I know I will!

13 comments:

  1. I have one of those updated things on mine. But I can't seem to bring myself to delete anyone. Because people come and go, I guess. I'm glad to be among your regulars. Thanks for that!
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  2. OK, OK, all right already, I commented.

    There.

    Seriously, this is one of the things that confounds me about blogs. I read blogs in Google Reader on my iGoogle homepage, and it doesn't show the comments, and I don't really have time to go to every item individually....but that means I'm not really participating in conversations and I'm a lurker. I don't like being a lurker. Ah, me.
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  3. I just recently finally got around switching from using Firefox live bookmarks to Google Reader and I find I have to click through to the blogs anyway because I'm so used to comments being part of the whole blog-reading thing that it feels like I'm only hearing half of a conversation if I don't read them. But I still lurk more often than I comment in most places.
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  4. Like a good, solid Al anon meeting, I will keep coming back.
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  5. aw bummer, I'm not commenting enough. I'd better get on that for the next blogroll update.
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  6. Hmmm. Looks like I have some tire slashing to do. Her own category for NOT commenting? Harumph!
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  7. Jay, I read everything through Google Reader, so I miss most of the comments, but I don't like being a total lurker, so I usually click through periodically and leave a comment just so folks know I'm still reading.
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  8. Cool widget! Seriously... I need to really work some more on my layout, but I just can never find the time! Though I love my new Shelfari...

    Hope you are happy, content and everything?
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  9. I read through google reader as well. I never miss a post. I don't comment as much as I used to - I'm a busy girl. I guess I've become a lurker... so sorry. I'll try to do better.
    xo
    LBC
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  10. comment, comment, comment...yes, google reader is a thing of beauty for not missing a post, but it certainly curtails my commmenting...
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  11. We seem to all have issues with the Google Reader...Do I see a support group for that in our future? It's either that or I follow way too many blogs...

    (Just light heartedly, of course. No offense intended!)
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